It’s nice to imagine a relationship where everything can be out in the open, transparent, and conflict-free. And yet, here we are in 2023, where marriages, if they are even happening, are falling apart like flies. The big three (money, sex, kids) still rule, and spouses never tire of fighting…

Where’s the line between being a flirt and being a creep? — In today’s dating scene, it can be difficult drawing the line between being flirtatious and being creepy. Mainly because what works well for one person may come off as inappropriate, needy, or even aggressive for another. …

The most inspiring joy in our relationships is the excitement of building a great future together. Of finding the one with whom you can create a life larger than just the sum of its parts, bringing new meaning, happiness, and purpose into your current existence. To this end, we throw our heart and soul into our partner, into our relationship, with such high expectations of a…

For many of us, the transition to marriage stems from our deep and passionate love for our partner. She is so lovely, soft, connecting, and giving. She understands me. She knows exactly how to soothe my body and soul. I love her dearly and want to make her mine forever. These…

When I first entered corporate America, I was so excited. Not only did my paycheck go way up, but I got to wear a suit and tie, go to meetings, drink coffee, and just be so responsible. …

I work on marriage every day. Not only my own but mainly on others. It’s my job, and I never tire of it. Nothing brings me more joy than seeing my wife happy, and my clients happy. Marriage therapy is a specialized field. Many go into it, only to leave…

It’s not easy staying relevant on Twitter. I’ve been doing it for 5+ years, and in order to consistently share my thoughts, feelings, and wisdom, I must keep a finger on the pulse of the challenges people are facing, daily. Today, more than ever, men and women are polarized. In…

Is it your duty? Your responsibility? Your privilege? — Recently on Twitter, I showcased a dialogue I had with a woman about her feelings toward intimacy in marriage. I was asking her to explore, why are we having sex, anyways? Is sex a duty? Is it a responsibility? Is it a chore? Is it a gift? And, what’s…

Her: I’m so sad. Me: Why’s that? Her: He’s still not ready. He says he’s “not sure anymore.” Me: How long have you been dating? Her: 3 years. Me: How old are you? Her: 34 Nothing hits me so hard as hearing the most painful of stories — a woman…